OK, I couldn’t resist the urge to pen down a few thoughts on NY State Governor, Elliot Spitzer. The guy is involved in a prostitution ring, allegedly spent over $80,000 on hookers in the last few years and as if all this wasn’t disgusting enough, he drags his wife up on stage as he apologizes….so much for being there for his wife and 3 daughters.
How then does personal character and integrity matter in a leader? Should we forgive an elected official or business executive for a personal human weakness or utterly stupid lapses in judgment, as long as he/she can still perform at a high level?
My answer – No way!!
As I have repeatedly emphasized on some of my other blog postings, Character IS leadership…period. There are is no grey areas between one’s private actions and public performance. Character and your values are held to their highest test standard when “no one is looking”. Leadership isn’t something one can turn off and on…especially when you hold a position in a public office.
I am not sure how many of you remember the movie, “Breaking Away”? Dave Stoller (Dennis Christopher) fantasizes about being this Italian biker. He lands an opportunity to race against an Italian cycling team visiting Bloomington, Ind., that he has literally worshiped. But when he shows that he can keep up with them, believing they will admire the level of his effort, they throw him into a ditch and his fantasy world comes crashing down. “Everybody cheats,” he says….
I disagree. An authentic leader never cheats….he/she never compromises his values. If you steal, cheat (including your spouse), lie or break the law you might be given another chance as a human being…but I am sorry, you are no leader. So, please step aside…